Unearthing Your True Value: More Than Just Achievements

What’s something you believe everyone should know.

Do you remember a time when you felt you weren’t good enough? When you felt pressured to prove your worth to the world?

I’ve never shied away from sharing what I believe is crucial for everyone to know: each person, each being, is infinitely precious and unconditionally loved for the gift they inherently are. At our core, we are all treasures beyond measure.

Each person, each being, is infinitely precious and unconditionally loved for the gift they inherently are.

Many of us spend a lifetime trying to validate our worthiness, hoping to offer something that elevates our standing. However, this is a futile endeavor. While contributing to the ‘Great Unfolding’ – a term I use to describe our universe’s continuous evolution and our personal journey – is commendable, this doesn’t alter our intrinsic value. It might change perceptions in the eyes of society, religion, or our “tribe,” but these are mere illusions.

Competition can spur us to exert more, possibly bringing out our best. Yet, this drive doesn’t augment our inherent worth. Think of yourself as a priceless gem. Even if it’s covered in layers of dirt and grime, beneath it all, the gem remains radiant and invaluable.

Consider the tale of Van Gogh. His work was scarcely recognized during his life, but now, it’s celebrated globally. His worth wasn’t in the acknowledgment he received but in the essence and soul he embedded in every canvas.

In our pursuit of validation, we often fall for superficial metrics. “The one who dies with the most toys wins” is a common adage. But in striving for these “toys,” thinking they enhance our value, we might end up spiritually and emotionally bankrupt.

As you navigate your life, remember that your worth isn’t determined by how much you have or how much you’ve achieved. Your very existence, the unique blend of passions, experiences, and insights you bring to the world, is already invaluable. Cherish that, and let it guide you.

Questions to Ponder:

  1. How often do you seek external validation, and how does it impact your sense of self-worth?
  2. In what ways have societal standards influenced your definition of personal value?
  3. If achievements and possessions were removed from the equation, how would you define your worth?
A gem in the style of Van Gogh created by AI- DALL-E3

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