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Returning to Thanks

September 27, 2023September 27, 2023 ~ James ~ 3 Comments

Some mornings- like today!- I cannot get aligned or grounded in my morning practice. My mind is wandering everywhere even as I sit my meditation/centering prayer. I cannot “draw” or release myself back to the moment. I let go and let go and let go and let go. I may rationalize that this is building … Continue reading Returning to Thanks

More Walks with Intent

September 26, 2023 ~ James ~ 4 Comments

What could you do more of? For ten years of my life leading up to the pandemic, I walked daily between three and five miles. There is so much to experience on a walk. The world slows down and flowers come into focus. Birds become more than sounds from the foliage with fleeting glimpses of … Continue reading More Walks with Intent

Pleasing Everyone…

September 25, 2023September 25, 2023 ~ James ~ 2 Comments

What's the best piece of advice you've ever received? Early in my work life, I received this piece of advice: Give up on trying to please everyone; that is not your job. Besides, nothing you do will please everyone. Like most advice, it is easy to say and challenging to implement! My life has been … Continue reading Pleasing Everyone…

Love. Relationality. Connection.

September 24, 2023 ~ James ~ 4 Comments

What things give you energy? I find that every moment is ripe with energy. I am energy, concentrated here and now. To be in the moment, fully and completely, is to receive the energy that flows there. These are some of the times when I receive energy: When I am really with a friend in … Continue reading Love. Relationality. Connection.

Autumnal Equinox.

September 23, 2023September 23, 2023 ~ James ~ Leave a comment

The sun is passing directly over the equator today. The length of the day will be roughly equal in the Northern and Southern Hemispheres. In the North we are passing out of summer into fall and winter. In the South, it is passing from winter to spring and summer. Nature gives me pause in its … Continue reading Autumnal Equinox.

Soundtracks of Life

September 23, 2023 ~ James ~ 1 Comment

What's your all-time favorite album? The ethereal threads of music run through my life like the crimson, azure, and amber filaments of a tapestry. There are just too many choices for me to identify a single, all-time favorite album. On any given day if I am asked for a “favorite album.,” I will draw from … Continue reading Soundtracks of Life

Information Overload!

September 22, 2023 ~ James ~ 1 Comment

Which topics would you like to be more informed about? I have been “jack-of-all-trades, master-of-none” kind of person most of my life. Acquiring new and varying information gave me a sense of pride. If this question had been asked of me ten years ago, my answer would have been, “Why limit me to a few … Continue reading Information Overload!

Music Always and Everywhere

September 21, 2023 ~ James ~ 2 Comments

What would your life be like without music? Music is a vibrational energy of everyday life. Science tells us that everything vibrates down to the atomic level. In subtle ways, without music of vibrational energy, nothing and no one would be anything at all. I am deeply moved by music, including the synchronous and asynchronous … Continue reading Music Always and Everywhere

5 F’s of Holiday Celebration!

September 20, 2023 ~ James ~ Leave a comment

Daily writing promptHow do you celebrate holidays?View all responses The word holiday originated from combining two words: holy and day. I draw on that image of sacred space when I think about ways to celebrate a holiday. Sometimes we celebrate in low-key ways; other times, we go all out. I begin my five-factored list with … Continue reading 5 F’s of Holiday Celebration!

A View from My Walk

September 19, 2023 ~ James ~ 3 Comments

When I wrote about walking, it was suggested we share some pictures. Here are some from today.

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Ripening Release: Loving Without Grasping - Infinitely Precious

What if holding on too tightly is actually what's keeping you stuck?In this episode of the Infinitely Precious Podcast, host James Henry continues his series on the ripening dimensions of a well-lived life, turning this week to ripening release — the practice of loosening our grip on time, relationships, past hurts, and old versions of the people we love.James explores what it means to release the "mountaintop" highs and the lowest lows we tend to hold onto as defining moments, and why clinging to either keeps us stuck in comparison instead of present to what's actually in front of us. He unpacks why loving without grasping means falling in love, again and again, with the person someone is becoming — not the person they used to be.The conversation moves naturally into forgiveness and reconciliation, using the Japanese art of Kintsugi (repairing broken pottery with gold) as a metaphor for how relationships heal: not by erasing the break, but by becoming something new, scars and all. James also draws a clear, practical distinction between guilt and shame — guilt as an invitation to take responsibility and grow, shame as a trap that convinces us our worst moment defines who we are.This episode closes with a simple, gentle practice: naming what you're still gripping, and asking whether you're ready to let it go.In this episode:Why holding onto peak or painful moments keeps us from being presentLoving without grasping: releasing the "person you married" to receive who they are nowForgiveness vs. reconciliation — and why they aren't the same thingKintsugi as a metaphor for healing and transformation after brokennessThe difference between guilt (invites growth) and shame (defines identity)A guided reflection practice on release
  1. Ripening Release: Loving Without Grasping 16:02
  2. Ripening Enough-ness: I Am, and That's Enough 13:02
  3. Ripening Action: The Ripple You Never See 12:46
  4. Forty Years Later: Who Have I Become? 14:02
  5. Ripening Intention: Showing Up As Yourself 09:33
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