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Get Used to Disappointment

December 14, 2023 ~ James ~ Leave a comment

In the iconic sword duel from the movie “The Princess Bride,” Inigo Montoya battles a masked man, admiring his swordsmanship and acrobatics. When Inigo presses for the man’s identity, he’s met with the response, “Get used to disappointment.” This line has resonated with me deeply. Disappointment is essentially the failure of our hopes or expectations … Continue reading Get Used to Disappointment

Desperately Seeking Control

December 10, 2023 ~ James ~ 3 Comments

This morning, I awoke to a stark realization: one of my most significant challenges is a desperate quest for control—control over my life and aspects of the larger world that, in my mind, I could manage better than those currently at the helm. Even when I whisper to myself, “I surrender,” there’s a paradox at … Continue reading Desperately Seeking Control

The Cake Incident: A Lesson Beyond Baking

December 3, 2023 ~ James ~ 3 Comments

Have you ever felt defined by a mistake, as though a single error could encapsulate your entire identity? It’s common to attach our self-worth to our achievements or failures. Recently, I encountered a similar situation that offered a profound lesson in self-perception and value. The Incident: I love baking; it’s one of my ways to … Continue reading The Cake Incident: A Lesson Beyond Baking

Manifesting Love

November 30, 2023November 30, 2023 ~ James ~ 1 Comment

Have you ever looked at the world and wondered what your role in its transformation could be? I have recently been observing the state of our world with a sense of growing concern. It's evident in the disarray of our personal, political, social, and international relationships. And when we consider our track record in caring … Continue reading Manifesting Love

Long on this Path

November 25, 2023 ~ James ~ 7 Comments

For much of my life, I've been journeying along the spiritual path, following Jesus. Initially, this journey was about "believing" in Jesus as the embodiment of Christ in human form. As someone who finds comfort in intellect, the concept of belief suited me. Over time, I began to see belief as more than an idea; … Continue reading Long on this Path

Embracing the Spirit of Thanksgiving

November 23, 2023 ~ James ~ Leave a comment

I've read many posts today from friends and acquaintances expressing their gratitude, and I found myself almost spontaneously listing people and aspects of life for which I am thankful. My son wandered off from the dinner table to call several of his close friends, wishing them a “Happy Thanksgiving” and discovering how they were spending … Continue reading Embracing the Spirit of Thanksgiving

Always One More Thing

November 21, 2023 ~ James ~ Leave a comment

I was looking at my list of items to accomplish today. As I pondered the list, an overwhelming sense of dread began to build. Each task, while necessary, feels like a small chip away at my freedom, making my free spirit feel hemmed in. This dichotomy between spiritual understanding and daily tasks often leaves me … Continue reading Always One More Thing

Seeking Peace and Wholeness

November 16, 2023 ~ James ~ 2 Comments

Every morning, I find myself seated in this chair, or another, when I’m elsewhere. I’ve come to anticipate that sitting here will usher in a sense of inner peace, enabling me to face life’s chaos with greater ease. Gradually, I’m realizing that neither the chair nor its location is magical. The practice itself is just … Continue reading Seeking Peace and Wholeness

The Leaves through my Window

November 14, 2023 ~ James ~ Leave a comment

In my usual morning spot, I sit, gazing through the window at the neighboring tree. The bright yellows have faded to browns, leaving much empty space. The tree has shed its leaves, which served it faithfully through spring and summer. I ponder: Is it easy for trees to relinquish their leaves annually? This question lingers … Continue reading The Leaves through my Window

Falling

November 9, 2023 ~ James ~ 2 Comments

And I fellAnd fellInto the Ocean of LoveTo which there is no bottom. May you find deep love in this and all moments.

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Ripening Release: Loving Without Grasping - Infinitely Precious

What if holding on too tightly is actually what's keeping you stuck?In this episode of the Infinitely Precious Podcast, host James Henry continues his series on the ripening dimensions of a well-lived life, turning this week to ripening release — the practice of loosening our grip on time, relationships, past hurts, and old versions of the people we love.James explores what it means to release the "mountaintop" highs and the lowest lows we tend to hold onto as defining moments, and why clinging to either keeps us stuck in comparison instead of present to what's actually in front of us. He unpacks why loving without grasping means falling in love, again and again, with the person someone is becoming — not the person they used to be.The conversation moves naturally into forgiveness and reconciliation, using the Japanese art of Kintsugi (repairing broken pottery with gold) as a metaphor for how relationships heal: not by erasing the break, but by becoming something new, scars and all. James also draws a clear, practical distinction between guilt and shame — guilt as an invitation to take responsibility and grow, shame as a trap that convinces us our worst moment defines who we are.This episode closes with a simple, gentle practice: naming what you're still gripping, and asking whether you're ready to let it go.In this episode:Why holding onto peak or painful moments keeps us from being presentLoving without grasping: releasing the "person you married" to receive who they are nowForgiveness vs. reconciliation — and why they aren't the same thingKintsugi as a metaphor for healing and transformation after brokennessThe difference between guilt (invites growth) and shame (defines identity)A guided reflection practice on release
  1. Ripening Release: Loving Without Grasping 16:02
  2. Ripening Enough-ness: I Am, and That's Enough 13:02
  3. Ripening Action: The Ripple You Never See 12:46
  4. Forty Years Later: Who Have I Become? 14:02
  5. Ripening Intention: Showing Up As Yourself 09:33
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