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Grounded: My Choice over Lunar Allure

October 28, 2023 ~ James ~ Leave a comment

How much would you pay to go to the moon? Nothing. I am not really all that interested in traveling to the moon. I am still learning to take in the reality that is right here and now within the atmosphere. I do love a dark night of gazing at her majestic beauty.

Embracing the Ebb

October 28, 2023October 28, 2023 ~ James ~ 4 Comments

At times, when faced with life's turbulence, the self I've constructed to protect my ego implodes. I gasp for air, trying to find my bearings. This contraction is a recurring phase in the rhythm of my existence. A particular vulnerability in my introspection gets triggered, and instead of expanding, I contract. My inner critic never … Continue reading Embracing the Ebb

Beyond the List: Finding Peace on A Friday

October 27, 2023 ~ James ~ Leave a comment

Tasks constantly weigh on my mind, urging immediate attention. However, I'm realizing that my often-neglected lists shouldn't consume my thoughts on the Sabbath. Yet, their persistent calls beckon even as I pen this blog post. "Attend to me! Attend to me…" they seem to chant, even as I find solace in my chair. I take … Continue reading Beyond the List: Finding Peace on A Friday

Rest Is Life-Giving

October 20, 2023October 20, 2023 ~ James ~ 1 Comment

Do lazy days make you feel rested or unproductive? I wonder if we have lost a sense of the need to rest. In a world that touts productivity as our ultimate goal, there seems little room to slow down. I wonder if we have begun to imagine living IS doing?! I fear we have demonized … Continue reading Rest Is Life-Giving

A Meaning-full Life

October 19, 2023October 20, 2023 ~ James ~ Leave a comment

When you think of the word "successful," who's the first person that comes to mind and why? The measure of a successful life is meaning. There may be other, more popular ways of “measuring” success; after all, “successful” is a subjective accolade. My standard rests on person’s sensed and shared meaning. Using this criteria, I … Continue reading A Meaning-full Life

More than Proximity

October 18, 2023October 18, 2023 ~ James ~ Leave a comment

What makes a good neighbor? The English word “neighbor” has its origins in Old English meaning near-dweller. It was proximity that defined the neighbor. My first thoughts go to folks adjacent to me. After that initial thought, however, I realize there are bigger implications to the word. The world is getting smaller What defines distance … Continue reading More than Proximity

Everything Old Is New Again

October 17, 2023October 17, 2023 ~ James ~ Leave a comment

What could you try for the first time? There is a fascination in this life with “new things.” What could I try for the first time? The answers are wide ranging as there are many things I have not tried. I find myself wondering aloud- here in writing- what my next new thing could be? … Continue reading Everything Old Is New Again

The Gift in All Creatures

October 16, 2023 ~ James ~ 2 Comments

periodically I come across quotes I find particularly moving. Today was such a day and here it is. Enjoy! Every single creature is full of God and is a book about God. Every creature is a word of God. If I spend enough time with the tiniest creature, even a caterpillar, I would never have … Continue reading The Gift in All Creatures

An Examined Life

October 16, 2023October 16, 2023 ~ James ~ Leave a comment

What principles define how you live? Living intentionally invites me to be clear about my values. Those values as they are shape my life; these values determine my choices and daily interactions. I regularly state my values usually writing them in my journal to see how they “sit” with me; then I examine my life … Continue reading An Examined Life

Recovering Perfectionist

October 15, 2023 ~ James ~ Leave a comment

What have you been putting off doing? Why? My traditional pattern for living has been to put off everything until the last minute. That way, there is a reason when it is not perfect. The longer and harder I work on a project and the more invested in the outcome I am, the more I … Continue reading Recovering Perfectionist

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Ripening Release: Loving Without Grasping - Infinitely Precious

What if holding on too tightly is actually what's keeping you stuck?In this episode of the Infinitely Precious Podcast, host James Henry continues his series on the ripening dimensions of a well-lived life, turning this week to ripening release — the practice of loosening our grip on time, relationships, past hurts, and old versions of the people we love.James explores what it means to release the "mountaintop" highs and the lowest lows we tend to hold onto as defining moments, and why clinging to either keeps us stuck in comparison instead of present to what's actually in front of us. He unpacks why loving without grasping means falling in love, again and again, with the person someone is becoming — not the person they used to be.The conversation moves naturally into forgiveness and reconciliation, using the Japanese art of Kintsugi (repairing broken pottery with gold) as a metaphor for how relationships heal: not by erasing the break, but by becoming something new, scars and all. James also draws a clear, practical distinction between guilt and shame — guilt as an invitation to take responsibility and grow, shame as a trap that convinces us our worst moment defines who we are.This episode closes with a simple, gentle practice: naming what you're still gripping, and asking whether you're ready to let it go.In this episode:Why holding onto peak or painful moments keeps us from being presentLoving without grasping: releasing the "person you married" to receive who they are nowForgiveness vs. reconciliation — and why they aren't the same thingKintsugi as a metaphor for healing and transformation after brokennessThe difference between guilt (invites growth) and shame (defines identity)A guided reflection practice on release
  1. Ripening Release: Loving Without Grasping 16:02
  2. Ripening Enough-ness: I Am, and That's Enough 13:02
  3. Ripening Action: The Ripple You Never See 12:46
  4. Forty Years Later: Who Have I Become? 14:02
  5. Ripening Intention: Showing Up As Yourself 09:33
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