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A Sabbath Creed

Wooden bench under a tree beside a calm lake at sunset reflecting silhouettes of mountains
July 18, 2026July 15, 2026 ~ James ~ Leave a comment

We believe that God is the Creator who rested,not because God was exhausted,but because God revealed a holy rhythm for creation. We believe that the world is sustained by God,not by our endless striving. We believe that every person is infinitely preciousand unconditionally loved,apart from what they produce or accomplish. We believe that Sabbath is … Continue reading A Sabbath Creed

More than Proximity

October 18, 2023October 18, 2023 ~ James ~ Leave a comment

What makes a good neighbor? The English word “neighbor” has its origins in Old English meaning near-dweller. It was proximity that defined the neighbor. My first thoughts go to folks adjacent to me. After that initial thought, however, I realize there are bigger implications to the word. The world is getting smaller What defines distance … Continue reading More than Proximity

My Own Voice

September 30, 2023September 30, 2023 ~ James ~ 1 Comment

What’s the trait you value most about yourself? When my children were young, I would read to them most nights before bed. Often children’s stories have multiple characters, and so I would attempt to create appropriate voices for members of the Berenstain Bear family or Junie B Jones or any of children’s favorites. Almost without … Continue reading My Own Voice

Music Always and Everywhere

September 21, 2023 ~ James ~ 2 Comments

What would your life be like without music? Music is a vibrational energy of everyday life. Science tells us that everything vibrates down to the atomic level. In subtle ways, without music of vibrational energy, nothing and no one would be anything at all. I am deeply moved by music, including the synchronous and asynchronous … Continue reading Music Always and Everywhere

Poetry Brings Me Peace

September 13, 2023 ~ James ~ Leave a comment

When I am overwhelmed by discord and dissension in my life and many places, I often find comfort in the words of poets. The following are words from Rumi, the Sufi mystic and poet of the thirteenth-century. May this poem offer you encouragement and an invitation to that "field" Rumi describes! Out beyond ideas of … Continue reading Poetry Brings Me Peace

Chats with My Inner Critic

September 8, 2023September 8, 2023 ~ James ~ 1 Comment

If you had to give up one word that you use regularly, what would it be? "Stupid." I would dispel that word from my vocabulary; that goes double for my inner critic. Let me be clear. I do not use "stupid" much in daily conversation or thoughts I have about the world. However, my friend … Continue reading Chats with My Inner Critic

Where is Home?

September 5, 2023 ~ James ~ Leave a comment

What does your ideal home look like? This writing is a second attempt. I wrote and edited a response to this question as I originally read it. However, in an “aha” moment, I realized there was a different response rising in me. That is because my first response was to the question, “What does your … Continue reading Where is Home?

Life As It Is and Could Be

August 29, 2023 ~ James ~ 1 Comment

What TV shows did you watch as a kid? There were three notable shows that immediately come to mind from my childhood. The first was Mutual of Omaha’s Wild Kingdom, a show about nature and the realities of animals. I remember looking forward to the show weekly even when it was a repeat. Marlin Perkins … Continue reading Life As It Is and Could Be

Names, Stories, and Meaning

August 24, 2023August 24, 2023 ~ James ~ Leave a comment

Where did your name come from? Names. What do they say about a person? What story do they tell? Are they pointers to identify the one about whom or to whom we are talking or something more? Birth Names. My given name, James Edward, came from my mother’s step-father (James) and her dad who died … Continue reading Names, Stories, and Meaning

Simple Reminders

August 13, 2023 ~ James ~ Leave a comment

If you were going to open up a shop, what would you sell? I would open a shop that sells inexpensive reminders of how precious each of us is, just as we are. I think I would need to do a fair amount of market research because what reminds me of being precious may do … Continue reading Simple Reminders

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Inhabiting Relationship - Infinitely Precious

What does it mean to inhabit relationship? In this episode of the Infinitely Precious podcast, host James Henry continues the "Inhabiting" series, following inhabiting preciousness, inhabiting pain and struggle, and inhabiting grief. He explores how we are born into relationship, with the planet, the air we breathe, our ancestors, and the universe itself, and how spiritual practice can help us notice and honor connections we usually overlook.James reflects on how easily we slip into transactional relationships ("I will love you if you love me") and invites listeners to treat relationships as gifts worth inhabiting rather than exchanges to get something from. He considers what it looks like to stay present in challenging relationships, including people who irritate us or push our buttons, without rushing to change, ignore, or retaliate. He also reflects on broken and irreconcilable relationships, and on the unhealthy ways technology can shape our connections.From a favorite pine tree outside his window to the oxygen exchange between us and the plants, and from the stardust in our bodies to the 8 billion people who share this planet, this episode offers a contemplative, non-dogmatic reflection on interconnectedness, mindfulness, and spiritual growth. If you're seeking a grounded, compassionate way to think about connection, belonging, and how to be present in the relationships you already have, this episode is for you. And remember: you are infinitely precious and unconditionally loved for the gift you already are.In This EpisodeWhat "inhabiting" means in this series: learning to be where we are, right now, rather than trying to be somewhere elseHow this episode arose out of the previous week's reflection on inhabiting griefWhy we've been in relationship since before birth: the womb, our ancestors, our genetics, the earth, and the universeRelationship with the air we breathe, the vibrations in our voices, and the words we speakThe relationship between podcast host and listener, connected across distance by spiritHow relationships become transactional ("I will do this if you do that") and why relationships are more than transactionsEven a brief exchange at a store counter is a form of relationshipThe spiritual chair, the pine tree outside the window, and relationship with the objects and nature around usWhat it looks like to inhabit a challenging relationship without trying to change it, ignore it, or retaliateRelationship with all of humanity: how do we honor 8 billion neighbors?Honoring the planet, the sunshine, and the rain as relationshipsBroken relationships are still relationships, and holding the hope of healing without forcing itRelationship with technology and how to recognize when a relationship is unhealthyPhotosynthesis, oxygen, and carbon dioxide: our relationship with our "plant sisters and brothers"The stardust in our bodies and the miracle of being connected to it allA practice: sit quietly and ponder the relationships you rarely notice
  1. Inhabiting Relationship 15:49
  2. Inhabiting Grief: Loving What We Cannot Keep 14:08
  3. Inhabiting Pain 14:31
  4. Inhabiting the Body 14:22
  5. Inhabiting the Gift You Already Are 12:18
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