Reframing Beginnings: Embracing Growth and Presence on Christmas’s Eighth Day

On the New Year and the eighth day of Christmas, my True Love gifted me something special: the power of reframing. Though I recognize the Western construct of the calendar I follow, acknowledging the cyclical nature of life as a blessing has been transformative. The eighth day of Christmas and New Year’s Day provide a unique opportunity for reflection. I spent part of the day evaluating what no longer serves me and what brings vitality to my life. This introspection allowed me to let go of the past and embrace a renewed sense of purpose and direction. I reminded myself that while I cannot control everything, I can cherish each moment and practice presence in whatever unfolds.

I re-engaged with a practice deeply meaningful to me: journaling. In the past, I often chose between journaling and writing for my blog, mistakenly believing they were similar practices. Though I reflect honestly in both, I’ve come to see their distinct value. Journaling is vital for shadow work and recognizing when my ego tries to take the lead. Blogging, on the other hand, allows me to refine and share my discoveries with others.

This year, the eighth day of Christmas was particularly meaningful. I am grateful for approaching my practice with a reflective and open spirit. It’s refreshing to acknowledge what benefits me and to consciously release patterns and practices that no longer serve a purpose.

Unwittingly, I had let my ego say “yes” too often, diluting my presence—one of my gifts. I had also let fear creep in, fear of change, and fear amid the uncertainties of a challenging world. Journaling helped me recognize these truths and even brought a knowing smile to my face as I caught myself in the act.

I realized I had been holding onto too much, both grasping and being grasped by external forces. Now, with clear sight, I can smile and let go.

What beautiful gifts my True Love bestowed upon me on the eighth day of Christmas. I wish for you the same opportunity for reframing, to recognize the ever-present cycle of receiving and letting go as our planet continues its journey.